Comments on: If You’re Not Complaining, There’s Something Wrong With You

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By: Irrevenant

Irrevenant — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 03:09:47 +0000

People don’t neatly fit onto a ‘Whiner –> Doormat’ axis. Your post hit the nail on the head then ruined it with a false dichotomy.

Neither behaviour is intrinsically good or bad - what matters is WHY you’re pursuing it.

Similarly, this idea that a relationship needs a ‘dominant person’ and a ’submissive person’ is flawed. Relationships can and do work well in a situation of ebb and flow, give and take, with complementary perspectives and strengths in different areas.

By: Nicole

Nicole — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 13:51:17 +0000

I like to call it criticism, not complaining. I find it useful because without it I’d lose my capacity & desire to change things for the better.

It’s only those that do nothing about their complaints that breed negativity. And they have bigger issues to deal with than whining.

By: Kaizan

Kaizan — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 11:47:06 +0000

@Walter

Thanks for the comment. Agreed, moderation in all things is good.

@Megan

Thanks for visiting and thanks for the kind comments about the blog.

I agree, we often dislike in others what we see in ourselves.

By: Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord

Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 11:04:22 +0000

This reminds me that it takes all kinds of people to make the world go around. For those who love a good and whiny person, there are complainers. For those who like the “sure, whatever” folks, there are the easy going ones. And I’m constantly learning more about myself through all of them. Any time I look at a complainer and think, “Stop that!” I’m recognizing something in me that resonates with their unhappiness. Same goes for the laid back folks.
Great stuff here! I like your blog!

By: Walter

Walter — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 23:25:14 +0000

Everything should be in moderation. A person of wisdom will know when to give way and when to resist.
It is foolish to coward when you need to confront, it’s hard to gain respect with this kind of attitude.

By: Kaizan

Kaizan — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 01:55:28 +0000

@Karthik Kumar

You reminded me of a George Bernard Shaw quote:

“The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.”

By: Kaizan

Kaizan — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 01:53:10 +0000

@Stephen

Thanks for the comment. You are of course, right. Complaining is not the right word for this, but it makes a catchy title!